Why Can’t We Be Friends?

Just a thought lang naman baka hindi ko na itutuloy ang birthday party ko sa sobra ng sama ng loob ko sa mga taong i consider “friends” pero tuloy pa rin dapat ang kasiyahan dyan kahit wala ako. this is for you guys.

Sa mga nadistract sa personality ko, ewan ko ba kung bakit affected kayo. i am not starting a fight nor a war but made this forum to be able to gather all my family members, relatives and some friends.

Alam nyo na siguro sino talaga ako by now. i am just an instrument na magkaroon pa ng maraming memorable and happy get together of which i really love to do. saan kaya ako nagkakamali? bakit ba ganyan? tao lang ako, hindi si darna.

Let me clarify also that you are always welcome to join the fun and can leave anytime the forum if you feel you’re not comfortable with me anymore. sa umpisa ang ganda ng pakikisama,pakikitungo pero sa huli, aatras at aakusahan na ako that i made them feel uncomfortable and for me, what matters most is, meron pa rin naman sigurong nagmamahal sa akin for who really am. Do No Think That I Am “Mikey”, ewan ko ba ang meaning nyan, kakashocked talaga ,ever.

Napansin ko lang kasi na maraming nanunumbat, nananakit na sa akin which to my great shocked, ako pa ang lalabas na masama. kung alam nyo rin sana kung anong nafefeel ko, it’s not always fun kaya but i try to make everybody happy, have fun all the time and create an aura of respect.

Iisipin nyo rin sana ang katayuan ko, alam nyo kung sino sino kayo na nagsupport sa akin from the start and until now. guluhin man nyo buhay ko, aalis man kayo dito, www.mikeygatal.com will always be here because you know what guys>>>in my 3 years of existence, i can say that there is nothing  Major, Major problem that i have done in my life because of the support from my family and friends, the love they are giving me. thank you so much!

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Can we be friends?

:D

of course, we can be friends, can you tell me more about yourself?thanks

i have a friend,a close on my heart.I love him! But I can’t tell him. I’m afraid of what he will say.And I fear that awkward moment. :(

and i can’t accept saying “Why Can’t We Be Friends?” NO!!!!

thanks.

average…lots of fear…

living alone here in manila..love to join fun run (Im a 16k runner) before most of time was spent in Gym..im such a health buff before..

what else?…hmmmm

female, single, 37 years old…( pls dont ask me why im still single..)

allergic to goodlooking guys…hehehe! (except you!)

How about you? I know you have a lot of friends…different set of friends..

by the way im a shy type also…not sometiems but always..

almost turning 40 and you are invited at my birthday bash in Bohol :) hope to see you around in Manila, will be staying there for 4 days. i am really humble and funny at the same time, loves to dance but only line dancing hehehe, watch me play tennis with my friends if you have time.

keep it easy, princess. do not make the wrong move, wait for the guy to ask you that, time will really tell when you have your moment with him someday.

thank you for your invitation. I will try to see you when you are here in Manila.

will keep you posted as soon as i check in at Shangrila Edsa Hotel

ok.. see you soon :)

Patience gives us strength. It gives us a reason to keep waiting. Yes, certain things are worth waiting for…:) but other side of my heart.. i don’t expect it anymore..

that’s hard, i can not say for more if you talked about heartaches, i am an amateur to this.

btw,i forgot to ask you if you have some rules, guidelines or policy to follow here… (is this exclusive for Boholanos? )

:(

of course not. this is open for everyone to join and loves to have more friends in their lives :)

thank you! wag ka makulitan sa akin ha! sakit ko yun…makulit.. :D

never naman, gusto ko nga yun eh :)

talaga ha! panindigan mo yan.. :D

hey! busy packing up your things? anyway have a safe trip going home.. :)

i will wait for you here.. :)

yup, super busy and can’t decide what to wear over there hehehe

pressure pressure na to talaga super ever hahaha

hahahaha! wear something you are comfortable. pabugso bugso ulan dito…but most of the time mainit.

Goodluck to your tennis games. Your frnds are so excited to play tennis with you and beat you…hahaha!

:D hope you win! i will cheer for you!

i’m out of shape but i’ll try my very best to give a performance level.

ok, keep me posted.. :)

“Every person is a new door to a different world.”

thought it will keep me going but it was just an inspiration hahaha

i need an inspiration to move on…to motivate me…and to keep me going. :)

ha ha ha

good for you mikey… wishyou the best .

and lucky for me, i won last night in our first round tennis event in Manila, Phlippines

that’s a fact, beating a friend last night at some tennis match was an inspiring game, thought i wouldn’t win because i still have had a jet lag but persevearance was a key.

WOW! may jet lag kapa nyan ha! hehehe! magaling ka lang talaga.. :)

hahaha, thanks, siguro nga pure talent na lang yun nagpapanalo sa akin, so tired pa ako then laro na naman daw kami for our second singles match.

kapagod single match, takbo ka talaga from one side to other side…buti ok na knees mo?

i lost to a better player last night and i wouldn’t make my injured left knee to be an excuse though it was hurting so badly when i tried to bend for some slices and under spins, that tennis match was very intense. now we have 1-1. expect for a third round match.

slices? under spins? hmmm…
cant relate..hehehe! hope your left knee is ok now.

tennis terms when it comes to your weapons in playing against a tennis player.

i need a friend, a friend that will accept me for what i am, a friend that will always be there when i need one… bakit ba napakahirap hanapin ng totoong kaibigan.. hayz! :(

hi maria, how are you? thanks for coming back, i have been searching and waiting for you.sorry, i f i was a bit lost in our conversations, ganun pala talaga pag magbakasyon ka, nagiging busy with your family and friends. have you been missing someone? or anything happened with a friend lately? hope you are doing fine,thanks for sharing.

lot of things happen for past few weeks..my close friend in lasalle past away..miss her so much! 3 na sila na sobra miss ko may mother who past away last may and my sister in law…but i need to be strong. Aja!

Hope you are okey too..

ako naman, puro mga intriga lang dumadating, napansin ko lang na kung happy ang isang tao ngayon, eto naman tayong pinagpipintasan. haaayyy buhay, sana magkakasundo na lang sana lahat.

in time things will be ok..for the meantime kung masakit na talaga need to back out muna or pahinga muna..but not necessarily eliminating frnds..pero pag they cause so much pain na and they dont really care i think we should do it na. Kasi minsan nakakabawas ng self respect or self confidence na…(that is only my opinion)

that’s really true, why would you force yourself for someone who doesn’t want you in their lives anymore. it might have caused a lot of pains na. siguro nga hindi dapat mag eliminate ng friends kaagad agad kasi baka may chance pa, tama nga si bff, magpalamig lang daw muna sya, sometimes kasi, hindi lang ako makaantay na hehehe

patience is a virtue..hehehe! but honestly, that is one of my weakness.

ang hirap talaga pero ayaw akong tantanan ng nakakapagpaligid sa kanya, ewan ko na rin s kanya hahaha

kaya mo yan…AJA frnd!

kakayanin talaga fren, salamat sa payo, kumusta ka na dyan?

ok naman ako, eto nasa harap ng computer basa ng cases assigned in my law subject..graded recit later again today..4pm to 930 pasok ko today, then tom i have my acctg tutorial from 10-12 and need to prepare my ppt presentation for my sat class naman our topic is FS analysis part 1. And im not yet done with my 2nd period grade in my lasalle class…waaaah!

kaw musta ka?

btw,thanks for asking musta na ako.. :)

nakita ko na pala ang photos mo, lovely poses and pictures to share with me,thanks

thanks, at least fair na diba…white posting ma imagine mo na ako…di ako mahilig sa photos, pinili ko lang yun sa FB account ko yung mga naiipon pag nag tagged. Syempre pinili ko yung medyo ok..hehehe! kapag outing and retreat lang ako may picture.

uwi ako ng bikol tomorrow visit ko muna father ko then be back by next week na…take care.

nakakainis na rin kasi minsan ang facebook, ang dami ng nangyari sa buhay ko hindi kanais nais especially when talked about friends. isa isahin ko na ngang tanggalin mga photos doon na kinasamaan ko ng loob.

dyan galing si John noon ng mag attend sya ng kasal sa kaibigan nya, ayoko na syang tawagin na bff kasi, akala nya siguro at yung pumapapel na sa kanya na pumipilit ko pa rin sarili ko sa buhay nila, ang akin lang naman is to not to hate each other. ingat sa byahe ha and don’t forget to stay healthy and be safe, would be nice to see your father.

thanks, sensitive na kasi father mula mawala mother ko feeling nya di na namin sha visit kasi wala na si mama..kaya puntahan ko muna habang wala pa masyado assign sa school. Pag nasa bikol ako yaya ako baka silip ako dito by next week na din…bye! take care din..maya 9pm alis ko.

be happy!

talaga, hope he enjoy his staye here in bikol..meron pala siya friend from bikol din…hehehehe!

gawain ko din yan magbura or mag delete ng friends sa FB and Friendster before…hehehe!

maiintindihan kita kung hindi ka rin makapost, ganun din ako di ba pag kasma ang family? mag enjoy ka while with your family back home and i’ll wait here, write more stories and will keep you posted, be safe sa byahe.take care.

yea, medyo amateur sya sa photography, may mga kuha din sya dyan sa may Mayon Volcano ang some photos of the wedding and the old churches. kaklase nya yata mga yun sa high school, plano akong dalhin nya dyan pero nagkalabuan na kami kaya wala ng pag asa.

may pag asa pa..andyan lang mayon di mawawala yan iba na nga lang kasama mo.

sayo na lang ako pasama dahil may alam ka talaga dyan, sana sa susunod kong pag uwi

kaya mo sumama sa akin? bus lang ako tapos di aircon bahay namin, nasa bukid..lambanog ang inum ko..maglalakad ka sa may palayan, tapos pag sinaman kita sa bahay pag pyestahan ka dun kasi ngaun lang ako mag uuwi ng lalaki..hehehe! lam mo na baka isipin jowa kita.hehehe! at di kita papayagan mag check in sa hotel, sa papag kita papatulugin..hehehe!

ok ba sayo yun?

ok lang ako nyan kasi masimoy naman ang simoy ng hangin sa probinsya. magdala pa tayo ng maraming kaibigan para maganda ang bakasyon, masaya. mag rent tayo ng car,hehehe

uu, masarap talaga hangin sa province, kaya sobrang hirap pag nakauwi tapos balik manila..sana di ako nagkaroon allergy dun pa rin ako siguro work.

saan ka nagka allergy? sa manila o sa probinsya?

sa province, allergic rhinitis, chalk pa kasi gamit sa ateneo nung teach ako dun, dumating talaga ako sa point na wla ako boses, kaya ayun napadpad mla para hanap work sa private firm..til now sakit ko yun pag change climate or sobra expose sa alikabok..na na trigger din ng ibang food.

hirap huminga pag ganun.

alam mo ba na karamihan ng pumupunta dito sa states na galing dyan sa atin ay nagkakadevelop ng allergies? isa na ako, hindi naman ako allergic sa mga halaman at lalo na pag winter, spring or fall na dito, anku, atching ako ng atching, dito na ako may maintenance nyan.

di naman cetirizine maintenance mo? or flixotide?

dati gumamit ako flixotide every morning. Pero pangit daw lagi din gamit flixotide.

nope, i am just taking a simple Claritin, a commonly used by the public for allergy attacks

ah, claritin kasi walang epekto na sa akin..citirizine virlix ako. Pag gusto ko mabilis iterax na.

hindi pa naman severe tong akin, lumalabas or umaatake lang occasionally. meron na rin generic nito kasi mahal ang Claritin dito sa amin.

i have moved on, you don’t have to force the issue to have friends in your life, just take it as it is.

huh? what do mean by this mikey? what issue you are talking about?

moving on, generally speaking, it happens to everyone, that’s the real issue!

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